Dear Carolyn, I am a mother of girls ages six and ten. I am separated, and I have half custody. I work hard, and the girls sometimes create havoc. I spanked the six-year-old with a belt, just like my mother did me. My church belief is “spare the rod and…
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Today’s Divorce Climate: The Ex-Spouse is a Spy
1. Change your email address and password when you begin your family law case. Change your computer and cell phone, if possible. Electronic devices, computers, and cell phones can be serious “leaks” of information and strategy in your case. Email trespass is probably the leading “technology” problem in family law…
Russian Diaries: June 9, 2015 at the Kremlin Palace: the Mouse is Out of the Box!!!
This day, June 9, was one of the most interesting days of my life. Alosha and I were set to perform at the Kremlin Palace, in Star Duo—a one day show similar to Dance Legends in New York City. Dwight and I planned nothing else for the day as it…
Critical Issues for Same-Sex Marriage in North Carolina
1. What is the date of marriage? Prior to October 2014, same-sex couples could not marry in North Carolina. But what date of marriage will North Carolina recognize if the same-sex couple was earlier married or entered into a civil union in some other state before October 2014? The date…
Guilford County Announces Domestic Violence Pilot Program
by Jon Csuka, Attorney, Woodruff Family Law Group-News Release- Take note that Guilford County is participating in a pilot program with regard to the e-filing of 50-Bs/DVPO. We are the first county in the State to put these procedures into place. All 50-B complaints will be E-filed from the Family Justice Center located at 201 S. Greene…
An Open Letter to Shermikia Lemon on Success: Magic of Reinvention
I look at success as achievement of goals at three points in time. Time is the magic gift that we all have, and we must use time wisely. There is success at the current moment and being in the now. There is success for intermediate goals, perhaps those to be…
Russian Diaries June 7, 2015: Arrival in Moscow
By: Carolyn Woodruff, JD, CPA, CVAWe have an uneventful Delta flight from Kennedy Airport leaving around 4:30 PM in New York (KJFK) to Moscow (KSVO) arriving around 9 AM. Dwight Ensley (my husband), Alosha and I are greeted at the Moscow Airport by Arina Demina, soon to be a Russian lawyer and to be our…
Same Sex Marriage in Modern Times: First Vote by a Country
By Carolyn J. Woodruff, JD, CPA, CVAIn Greensboro, a same sex couple can go to the Register of Deeds in Guilford County and obtain a North Carolina Marriage License. There are also Register of Deeds in the Piedmont Triad in Lexington, Asheboro, Graham, Wentworth, Roxboro, Yanceyville, and Winston Salem that provide the same product and service,…
Middle Aged Guy’s Date Wardrobe for Summer 2015
By Carolyn J. Woodruff, JD, CPA, CVAToday, let’s deal with the “date” wardrobe you should build over time (depending on your budget). This wardrobe selection is for Summer 2015 for dinners out, movies, theater, concerts and similar activities. Find your own look and make it your own. Be creative. It will make you feel good about…
Estate Planning vs. a North Carolina Divorce
By Carolyn J. Woodruff, North Carolina Family Law Specialist, JD, CPA, CVAIn North Carolina, estate planning can be difficult with the high divorce rate. Most who are estate planning want the property to go where it is intended. The gift tax annual exclusion for 2015 is $14,000 per donor per donee. This means a married couple can, together, give $28,000 to…