No family wants to suffer the social embarrassment of having the cops called on them. As a former police officer, I discussed domestic violence calls in my last blog. Now, here are three of my tips to prevent that from happening in the first place. Continue reading →
Communication is Key (Part 2)
Mark Griffin, M.E., Blog WriterIn this blog on communication, I will share what I have learned from my experience, both recovering at Cone hospital and from my time as a Greensboro police officer. Continue reading →
Communication is Key! (Part 1)
Mark Griffin, M.E., Blog WriterToo often here at Woodruff Family Law Group, we encounter families who are splitting up, often in the aftermath of a breakdown in communication. Once a family is no longer able to effectively communicate with one another, it is just a matter of time before even simple matters must be adjudicated with the help of our legal team. Continue reading →
Ask Carolyn: My Child’s Mother is Unfit. What Can I Do?
Carolyn Woodruff, J.D., C.P.A, C.V.A.Dear Carolyn,
I reluctantly entered into a consent child custody order with the mother of my child in 2013. We were never married and never actually lived together. The child is now five having been born in 2011. I get visitation under the 2013 order, but the court never heard any evidence in 2013. We simply agreed. Now, I am very concerned this mother is unfit. Continue reading →
Ask Carolyn: Can I Get More Alimony?
Carolyn Woodruff, J.D., C.P.A, C.V.A.Dear Carolyn,
I have received spousal alimony since a 2003 court order until death. I would like to get an increase because of the economy. My ex-spouse receives three times my social security and retirement. His home is paid for and he owes three motor vehicles. His social security and retirement from a big local company is great. I received zero from this after 38 years of marriage. He was in Management. What are my chances of getting an increase?
Ask Carolyn: What is the Parental Kidnapping Prevention Act?
Carolyn Woodruff, J.D., C.P.A, C.V.A.Dear Carolyn,
I am the father of two children, ages 10 and 12. The mother of the children lives in West Virginia, where she moved after our divorce. The children were born and always have lived in North Carolina. The North Carolina order for custody allows the children to travel to West Virginia for 5 weeks in the summer. Last year the mother did not return the children when she was supposed to at the end of the summer, and the court here held mother in contempt. Continue reading →
Ask Carolyn: How Can I Help with My Grandchild’s Day Care Tuition?
Carolyn Woodruff, J.D., C.P.A, C.V.A.Dear Carolyn,
I am a grandmother, and I want to help pay for the tuition for my grandchild’s day care and education at a nice day care facility. Then, my daughter and son-in-law can work without worry. They own their own business, and they both need to focus some quality time on the business, while maintaining my grandson as top priority. My toddler grandson will benefit from the education and interaction with the other children at this particular day care, but it is darn expensive. Should I give the money directly to my daughter or to the day care? Is there a tax advantage one way or another?
– Grandmother of the best grandchild ever…
How Can I Make the Most of Time with My Kids?
Carolyn Woodruff, J.D., C.P.A, C.V.A.Dear Carolyn,
I am a father of a beautiful 8-year-old daughter and a handsome 10-year-old son. I live here, but the mother lives in California. The mother has custody, but the children will be visiting with me for the last two weeks of July and the first two weeks of August. While I don’t have much time given the distance between the mother’s house and mine, I really want to make the time count that I do have. I can take two of the weeks off from work, but I have to work two of the weeks. What suggestions do you have?
– Dedicated Dad
Ask Carolyn: Who Gets the Dependency Exemptions?
Carolyn Woodruff, J.D., C.P.A, C.V.A.Dear Carolyn:
My ex and I share the children fifty-fifty. We have three children. I make approximately $25,000 more than the other parent. I pay child support even though I have them half the time. Our child support order says nothing about who gets the dependency exemptions, and I get in a fight with my ex every year over the dependency exemptions. Who should get the three dependency exemptions?
Ask Carolyn: My Soon-to-Be Ex Would Rather Get Alimony Than Work!
Carolyn Woodruff, J.D., C.P.A, C.V.A.Dear Carolyn,
I work and make a good income. During our marriage, my wife worked for a while, but stopped when we had children. She has and maintains a CPA license. We have a 15-year-old with some discipline problems and ADHD. We are divorcing, and I think she should go back to work. She wants alimony. Who is right? Does she need to work, or can she just continue to be a leech?
– Anti-Leech